No one can truly prepare you for the emotional shock of a cancer diagnosis. No matter how many people you have known with cancer, your story is entirely your own. In the spring of 2025, I went to my annual screening mammogram just like I was making a quick run to the grocery store — it had been an important, regular item on my checklist for 15 years. The months that followed were a whirlwind of imaging, biopsies, a bilateral mastectomy and radiation. While the medical professionals were amazing, I was consumed by waves of shock, grief and unease. I needed a different kind of support. That is when I found the North of Boston Cancer Resource (NBCR) community, and I could finally breathe a little easier.
While healing from treatment, I immersed myself in the NBCR community. I watched their Speaker Series videos, read everything on the website, and connected with remote programming through the Dempsey Center. I saw examples of others who had walked this cancer journey and were thriving, and their stories gave me immense hope when I was feeling discouraged. The in-person access to healing and supportive therapies was only available to me because of the NBCR. The Reiki, Oncology Massage, and Manual Lymphatic Drainage I received through generous gift certificates were the only way I could access this crucial complementary care that helped me look after my whole self. The monthly healing circle, “Honoring Your Body & Spirit” with Arleen Damon, touched my spirit through her care and the strength of the circle of survivors. NBCR is a lifeline for me right now while I remain in treatment. I am deeply grateful for this organization, and the hope it has provided makes me look forward to the day I can pay it forward.
-Melissa Martin